Selamat Besdayy!!

Assalamualaikum..

Semalam(19/4/2005), genapla adik aku umur 14 tahun. Huhu. Sedar tak sedar umur dia dah 14. How time flies by...

Heh, aku call dia semalam. Katanya malam before tuh aku yang 1st wish kat dia. Wahaha, whatever la. Yang penting, aku dapat call umah, borak2 ngan semua. Agak dah lama juga aku tak call umah. Huhu. Cume tak dapat cakap ngan mak sebab dia gi makan2. Takpe, in-syaAllah nanti call lagi.

Kepada adik, if you are reading this, angah doakan moga diberkati dan dirahmati oleh Allah selalu. Moga amalan kebajikan makin bertambah selaras dengan bertambahnya usia. You're the apple of everybody's eye in the family.

Makin bertambah usia, makin banyak tanggungjawab kene laksana and pikul. Moga diberi kekuatan menghadapinya. Dekatkan diri dengan Allah. Jadi la anak solehah penyejuk mata dan hati mama ngan abah. Jangan kerek2 arr :P

Err..tatau nak cakap apa dah. Sayu dah nih. Heh, cheh. Sentimental betol. Dah, last but not least, selamat hari lahir ke-14 la ye, dari angah yang menyayangimu(cheh, karattt, rasa cam nak "temesis" plak, haha :P),kepada adik, Tun Nur Hamizah binti Mohamed Nor..

Wassalam.

postscriptum : "temesis" adelah term yang bermaksud "muntah", contohnye "hemotemesis" bermaksud muntah darah, harap maklum..

The many faces of Bojol..

BeforeAfter

Eheh, dah lama sebenarnye aku nak buat entry yang didedikasi khas untuk kawan aku, Bojol of Warwick. Baru hari ini tergerak and teringat nak buat. Nih la gamba before and sehari after "beramal". Haha..tak paham? Tak paham takpe, biarla aku dan sapa2 yang pegi Ireland Trip aritu jek yang tau. Kalo ade yang gi Ireland Trip aritu tak paham gak, tak dapat le teman nak nolongnye..kuikui

Kepada Bojol di Warwick sana, jangan marah ar..kang marah2 kang..arr..sambung sendiri..haha :P Selamat menghadapi exam ah kat ko ye? Kuikui..mintak maaf banyak2 eh?

Wassalam..

Ermm..

Assalamualaikum..

Harap korang sehat. Aku alhamdulillah sehat. Hari penat sket, penat semalam actually tak ilang2 lagi. Apsal penat. Sebab aku gi main bola semalam kat Belfield. Yes, you read it right, aku main bola. Mana tak pancit, last main masa form 5, tuh pon main masa PJ. Haha. :P Tak kesah la. "Al-aqlussalim fil jismissalim" kan?(Akal yang sehat datang dari tubuh badan yang sehat). Most of the time aku dok tepi padang je la tapi, dah aku sub jek, kuikui :P. Semalam punye la sejuk. Tapi by tengah hari dah panas sket la sebab ade matahari.

Bangun awal harini. Sebab semalam tido awal. Subuh pon dah awal skang. 359 pagi. Syuruq kul 620 pagi. Skang siang makin panjang.

Berita sedih. Minta kalian bacakan al-fatihah untuk arwah ayah klasmate aku kat sini, Omar Khan. Ayah dia meninggal Khamis malam Jumaat yang lepas. Myocardial Infarction a.k.a heart attack. Sangat terkejut bile dia umumkan lepas solat Jumaat. Sebak betol. Tapi, walau camne sedih pon aku rasa, tetap tak dapat rasa apa yang dia rasa. Moga jika ada pahala dari bacaan al-fatihah tu, minta Allah sampaikan pada arwah ayah dia. Al-fatihah..

Bila terkenang pasal tu, insaf plak. Cam baru tersedar, mati bleh datang bebila jek. Whether we are ready or not, expecting it or not, sakit atau sehat, masa tengah muda atau dah tua, it will come.

Bila terkenang pasal tu, rasa takut. Camne kalo tengah tido, tetibe Allah panggil balik? Camne plak kalo time tengah jalan2? Tengah makan? Dosa plak makin hari makin menimbun. Amalan yang ade belum tentu cukup nak tampung or compensate dosa yang ade. Still, dengan kesedaran tuh, buat dosa gak lagi. Tengok mende yang tak sepatutnya, pandangan tak dijaga, solat pon lewat and kadang2 tinggal, sakiti orang lain sama ade ngan lidah atau perbuatan..urghh, banyak lagi ah! Huhu, Ya Allah, ampuni kami semua..

"Bagi tiap2 umat ada ajalnya, apabila datang ajal mereka itu, tiada dapat mereka minta mengundurkannya dan tiada pula minta mendahulukannya sesaat jua pun" - Surah al-A'raaf ayat 34.

"Rabbanakhtim lana bi husnilkhatimah, walaa takhtim 'alaina bi suu ilkhatimah"(Wahai Rabb kami, matikanlah kami dengan kesudahan yang baik, dan janganlah Engkau matikan kami dengan kesudahan yang buruk). Amiin ya Rabbal 'alamiin.

Wallahu a'lam.

Wassalam.

Ngumpat, backbite, ghibah..

Assalamualaikum..

Apa khabar semua eh? In-syaAllah semuanya tengah sehat la. Aku alhamdulilah sehat, cume ade la 2-3 hari asek selsema ngan sakit kepala jek. Tak kesah la. Adelah manfaatnye yang aku tatau tu.

So apa nak cite? Takdek apa. Just teringat nak postkan entry yang kali nih pasal backbite, atau ngumpat la senang cite. Sebab baru baca entry about ngumpat kat blog Asma'. So aku rasa, sebagai tambahan baik gak la aku letak gak entry nih. Moga2 kite semua dapat manfaat dari entry kali ni, dapat kurangkan dan seterusnye hapuskan terus kegemaran mengumpat dan mengata keburukan orang lain, sekaligus dapat elakkan diri kite dari melakukan sesuatu yang lebih besar dari membunuh ni.

Ramai orang yang sebenarnye keliru ngan mende yang dikata ngumpat ni. Ade antara orang yang sebenarnye tengah ngumpat, tapi dia tak sedar. Atau pon pada anggapan dia, dia tak ngumpat pon, "bukan nak ngumpat, just bagitau jek". Atau yang lebih kurang ngan ayat tuh la. So meh sama2 baca tazkirah pasal ngumpat yang di'email' kepada aku then renungkan, selama nih kite dah ngumpat bape ramai orang dalam sehari?..

Guises of Backbiting

Shaikhul-Islam Ibn Taimiyyah said that there are those from the people that backbite or listen to backbiting, and they do so to please the company they keep, with the awareness that the victim is likely to be innocent of some of the things that are uttered about him. Often such offenders feel that if they were to attempt to end such conversation in a gathering, their presence might become unwelcome or burdensome.

There are many methods and guises that are employed when one mentions another in a negative way.

Under the pretence of being informative, one could say that it is not one's habit to mention others, except for the sake of relating another's condition to someone.

Or one could state that by Allah, indeed so-and-so is one to be pitied, thereby showing superiority over one who is to be rejected.

Another method might be to say that so-and-so is a good person; however, he has such and such qualities. Again, one is justified in revealing another's faults.

One could also simply state that we should forget so-and-so, and make supplication for their forgiveness as well as our own, intending only to belittle the one that was mentioned.

In reality, all these tactics are designed to try to deceive Allah (the Exalted) and to please the creation; and in reality, the many that follow these methods only serve to deceive themselves.

Source:
"The Many Guises of Backbiting" - Islaam.com

So..dah dapat gambaran ke blom? Harap lepas nih, kalo rasa2 nak cite pasal orang, pikir dulu, kite suke tak kalo orang lain cite pasal keburukan kita? Kalo tak suka, toksah nak ngumpat orang lain plak. KAlo ade apa yang tak puas hati, gi cakap kat dia terus. Tak mampu? Diamkan aje, doa kepada Allah moga diberi kesabaran. Jangan pegi cite kat orang lain sampai menimbulkan rasa benci orang lain yang takdek kene mengena kepada orang yang diumpat. Hanya ade 3 golongan jek yang boleh dikata. Tapi aku tak ingat la plak. Yang aku ingat ialah "Pemerintah yang zalim". Lagi 2 aku tak ingat, minta sapa2 yang ingat, tolong bagitau.

Wallahu a'lam.

Segala salah dan silap harap dimaafkan.

Wassalam.

The Fast Car

Assalamualaikum..

Harap kalian sehat2 la in-syaAllah. Just nak kongsi sama2 email yang aku pernah dapat, tapi before nih tak pernah teringat plak nak letak kat blog. Moga kita sama2 dapat manfaat dari isi kandungan email nih.

If the life of this world is an illusion, the period of greatest illusion occurs during youth. It is a period of high energy and great enthusiasm, coupled with an air of invincibility and perpetuity. Like the driver of a fast car, one may also develop a disdain for the slower cars on the highway of life. It is difficult to imagine that the car will run out of fuel and that one day the engine will wear out.

For the moment though the car is fast and it can go places!

For this reason there are special warnings for the youth and glad tidings for the person who uses this energy wisely. A famous hadith tells us that on the Day of Judgment no man will be able to move from his place until he answers five questions. "How did he spend his life? How did he utilize his youth? How did he earn his wealth? How did he spend it? And, how did he practice what he learnt?" [Sunan al-Tirmidhi]. While the first question asks generally about one's life pattern, the second especially focuses on the period of youth.

On the other hand, the person who devoted his youth to the worship of Allah will be among the selected seven kinds of people: "There are seven people for whom Allah will provide His shade on the day when there will be no shade except His shade:

1. A just ruler.
2. A youth who grew up in the worship of Allah.
3. A man whose heart is attached to the mosque.
4. Two men who love each other for Allah's sake; they meet for the sake of Allah and part company for His sake.
5. A man who is invited by a woman of beauty and position [to sin], but he refuses saying: 'I fear Allah.'
6. A man who gives in charity secretly such that his left hand does not know what his right hand gives.
7. A man whose eyes shed tears as he remembers Allah in private."

[Bukhari, Muslim].

Hence the profound advice in another famous hadith to value five things: "Youth before old age, health before sickness, wealth before poverty, free time before preoccupation, and life before death."

A fast car is dangerous if it does not have strong controls. And that is where Shaitan targets the vulnerable --- by loosening the controls. It has been his time-tested trick to work through temptations and make desires look irresistible. The path of deviation looks good. It is cool. It is fun. It is endlessly entertaining. The only problem is, it leads to assured disaster.

Source:
"Youth: On Culture, Religion, and Generation Gap" - Khalid Baig

Peringatan untuk semua umumnya dan untuk diri sendiri yang makin leka khususnya.

Harini dah mula skolah balik, huhu. Exam lagi sebulan lebih. Huhu. Blaja2!! Huhu.

Wallahu a'lam

Wassalam